The Guest Bedroom

I’ve always loved houseguesting, whether with a friend, a family member or a cozy B&B. There’s just something about being a guest that offers a time of true respite. After all, when you’re in someone else’s domain, they’re in charge of all the little details that make it work, bills, deliveries, and the myriad and one others.

Lately, I’ve been thinking about what makes a guestroom, whether in a country inn, a bed and breakfast, or your own home work.
Examples of two different styles of guest bedrooms.

Speaking of the home guestroom, if you’re like me and so many others, guestroom is also synonymous with home office. And even the word, office, is enough to scotch any restful feelings. So if your guestroom is also your home office, please be mindful of arranging it in such a way that the office aspects (computer, desk, and all) can be whisked away, locked behind doors, or otherwise disguised so that your honored guest isn’t reminded of their own bills not so patiently waiting back home. The bed in a guestroom is usually determined by the size of the room in its use. Even a room that can afford the luxury of a queen-sized bed often finds itself pressed into service as a project layout space, vacation packing central, etc. Modern day sofa beds have been much improved from the torturous racks of years gone by and can be a good choice. I personally think the queen size is a much better bed than the double for a guestroom which would usually accommodate two because the inner frame of a sofa bed takes up a considerable amount of space from the mattress sleeping area.


By all means, do your guests the favor of sleeping a night yourself in the guestroom, which will immediately open your eyes to just what’s needed. Some basic prerequisites include a bedside table amply sized to hold a lamp, book, clock, phone, and a glass of water, minimum; plenty of flexible bedding, and by flexible, Examples of two different styles of guest bedrooms. I mean layered so that guests may add and subtract to suit their own temperature needs; and window shades, blinds, or curtains that effectively shut out the light since so much travel these days involves jetlag, sleeping in a truly dark room can make a real difference.

Choose a bedside table you don’t have to worry about. Be sure to design your room to be as low maintenance as possible, so guests don’t have to feel like they have to fuss around trying not to leave rings on the table, etc. make certain note that the bedside lamp is adequate to read by, and add a night light too, just in case. I prefer wall lights and table lamps to glaring overhead lamps, and I like lamps on dimmers so that one can easily control the mood of the room. I have a small radio alarm CD player I picked up for a song for the guestroom, and before my guests arrived I tuned it in to some jazz. No, I don’t provide a TV. My motto is, “pay attention to me, not the TV.” Instead, I always provide a lot of books and magazines, especially the ones with a focus on the local area. Another important feature in the guestroom is to have another comfortable place to sit besides the bed. If space allows, place a small table next to the chair as well and position a wall sconce above and behind. Other basic necessities include tissues, a large glass for water, and plenty of pillows. A luggage rack, which can be folded away, or a small bench is very handy for accessing suitcases. I find most people really don’t unpack any more, but will hang certain items, so do make sure that there are sufficient hangers in the closet.


A lovely scent in the air is always welcoming. Of course, “if I knew you were coming, I’d bake a cake,” is a truism as everyone loves the scent of freshly baked anything. But if you can’t arrange that, light a scented candle. A warm welcoming fragrance is a subliminal invitation to come in. Very simply, you can mull some spices in simmering water on the stove, cinnamon, cloves, rosemary, mint, all smell wonderful when they release their essential oils into the air.

In the final analysis though, the single most important aspect of any guest stay in a home or a bed and breakfast is the host’s own attitude and personality. So don’t forget the golden rule and lay the hospitality on thick.

Best,
Pamela

Combination family summer vacations

With summer already scratching at our doors, many families are beginning to think of ways to manage their next vacation. It seems that the major issues that surface during these times concern both time and financial constraints. A valuable way to address these concerns, I’ve found, is to combine a vacation with other family projects.a small blue bird Some of the best trips I’ve ever taken with my family have been themed around separate, unrelated things that we had been wanting or needing to do and we simply took the opportunity to turn these things into a full-on adventure. Contact www.familytravelguides.com to find some wonderful family orientated places to stay on your way.

Oftentimes, visits to family and friends can easily become part of a larger trip. You can also take advantage of journeys to areas of academic or work interest to see what they would be like to live in and to take a few days to explore the surrounding areas. While planning a vacation, you don’t always have to search for faraway, exotic destinations. Sometimes, those more local (or at least nearby) attractions, like sites of cultural interest and natural beauty, make for the perfect affordable family travel vacation and are usually the attractions that you had always set aside, just waiting for the time when you couldn’t think of anything better to do, but why not make them the main attraction!
a scenic panorama of the ozark mountains and valleys


I can think of one special family travel vacation to the Ozarks in Missouri that didn’t sound all that thrilling initially. All it took was a little bit of research on www.familytravelguides.com and we discovered an exciting world filled with Native American history, incredible mineral caves, lakes, springs, and crafts and cultural festivals; all within a few hours drive from home! Not surprisingly, this family travel vacation became one of our best ever. a beautiful waterfall nestled within the ozarksIt was a road trip that involved lots of careful packing, a big picnic basket, and many stops along the way. For example, we pulled off the highway to hit features such as the ancient site of Cahokia Mounds, many quaint villages (think Mark Twain), and the Missouri State University campus in Springfield Missouri (thinking ahead of those tweens in the car and college coming up). While in Springfield, we just couldn’t resist a stop at the Bass outlet store. Eureka! Lots of wonderful fishing gear for our lake adventures to come. Finally, we ended with a long week at a cabin very near Lake of the Ozarks, which not only turned out to be quite economical but also a whole lot of fun.

Pamela