Creating An Inviting Bedroom

By now, everybody knows I’m crazy about color. There’s just so much you can do with color to change the total ambiance of a room. One of the best places to experiment with color is in the bedroom. The bedroom is typically fairly small, yet highly emotionally charged. One of my favorite bedroom wall colors is blue, in any shade. . Nothing changes a room faster than paint…. One of my favorite blues is Benjamin Moores Heaven on Earth; it makes you feel like the sky has just come in. It’s just so restful and easy to approach.

Closely related is lavender, which pairs beautifully with grays and silver/chrome accents. Nothing wakes up a dark room faster than a sunny yellow. I love Benjamin Moore # 304, Shooting Star, which is like illuminated butter. If you use yellow in a bedroom, just be sure to strengthen it with a good dose of Mahogany, Burnt Amber or Black in furnishings and accessories. Another great way to wake up a room is by wall papering, either the entire space or just one wall alone.


I’ve been seeing some interesting uses of wallpaper lately, especially in bed and breakfasts. Perhaps get started with wall paper by covering the inner panels of an old door, saving the extra pieces for wrapping a small tray table or pencil holder, etc to inner weave the paper pattern throughout the room.
In a small room, another great way to lighten up is to use an acrylic chair, which seems to float in space and allow you visually to go through them. Myriad furniture is another wonderful idea for a fashionable bed stand or waste basket, drawing in even more light. In a dark room, a large mirror placed opposite the window can dramatically improve the feeling of light and radiance.
The actual bed in the room is another very important factor. What’s most important in a bed? First and foremost, the mattress must be comfortable. For an exceptional, quality mattress that will stand the test of time, visit our Lanier Bed & Breakfast Mattress Collection.

The bed itself, footboard and headboard should be well connected; to prohibit rocking and sliding. Or, another option is to use a platform and create your very own wonderful headboard. Keep your eyes open for an upcoming column on creative headboards! With a beautiful box spring, cover your cozy bed in beautiful chocolate mohair and nicely top with comfortable, crisp, clean sheets. No room in the house is more important than the master bedroom, not only is it where you spend a third of your life, but so many of life’s momentous occasions take place within those walls. There are many, many ways to give any bedroom, no matter how small, dark or drear, a wonderful snug, comforting feel. I like a bedroom to feel very comforting. If your room is extra small, consider installing a pocket door to the bedroom and bath, if adjoining. Think of those two spaces as visual extensions of the bedroom.
Everyone knows I’m a big fan of crisp, white sheets. They just always look so clean and fresh. I’m also big on upholstering the box spring or simply covering it with a deep fitted sheet for a smooth and continuous look. I, for one, also like a bed that’s pretty high off the ground. The height creates a special feel to crawl in and can also give you a better view out the windows. A big bedside table, even in a small space, is to my mind an absolute must. If it has shelves beneath it, it can also serve a multi purpose; so much the better.

There are just so many things you need room for on a bedside table: books, clock, flowers, iPod dock, a good reading light (although I like the lights that attach to wall on swing arms as well.) I’ve recently seen at a recent bed and breakfast a small feminine desk used clearly as a bedside table against the wall, which can double both as a writing desk or bedside table. The drawers can handle personal items. Every room also needs a chair or if space is tight, consider a bench. You can still sit down to put on your shoes and drop a bag. Another great way to delineate a bedroom and create drama is by taking advantage of the verticality of a 4 poster bed and the way it adds romance to the room. Under the bed, I like to use an area rug to fit the space and visually define it. Locate either an inexpensive pre-cut area rug or find a wonderful, luxurious bolt end and ask your carpet store to bind the edges. This will give you a high defined custom look for a very cost effective price.

Nothing is more dated than old window treatments. So, if your room is guilty of this, here are my thoughts... Install new window treatments. I love the selection at Bed Bath and Beyond. Find a nice substantial pole to harmonize with your décor and use it behind either a blackout drape or a blackout blind to create total privacy and that wonderful “we’re all by ourselves” feel. Finally, a must have, some fresh flowers. Even one stem will add a sense of light and life to your décor. One more tip… outfit a small side lamp with a low watt pink bulb and leave that burning for background ambiance. I promise you will never look so good!

SHOW SOME L-O-V-E

The month of love is upon us all…red roses, dark chocolates, and the vibrant color pink fill the store fronts, igniting “love flames” across the globe. Does your heart pound for this hallmark holiday? February is the month to proclaim your love, to connect, express and appreciate your dearest valentine. The sacred 14th of February has long been reserved for you and your sweetie to enjoy one another’s company and dedicate the day for two.

There is no better way to get away from the stresses of life, to turn off the fidgety cell phone, shut down the computer screen, ditch the daily planner and center in on what matters most, the one nearest and dearest to your heart. Valentines Day travel is a great way to ensure a memorable, relaxing and romantic retreat. Venture out for a Valentines Day weekend you will remember for years to come.

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Aside from the annual heart day, February is a great month to begin gearing up for the New Year and pulling the house back together in recuperation from the hectic holidays. After taking a much needed “breather” in January, it is now time to buckle down in February and take action for 2010. Color and de-clutter is a great theme for motivation. Freshen up the pantry door, accent the walls and wake up the home with neutral, yet inviting colors such as butter cream or amber, paired with a honey hue to virtually give any room a refreshing and vibrant start. Investing in fun, but useful colored chalkboard paint could not only be enjoyable for the entire family, but also a great way to keep organized and on task with everyday life activities and ever changing agendas.

In over 24 colors, write directly on the paint just as you would a classroom chalkboard! Not only will the kiddies love it, but so will your scattered schedule! Open up those cob webbed closets, line up the room with a bin titled “garbage, “give away”, and “relocate” and get tidy in no time. It may be a good idea to have a support system in the midst of de clutter so you won’t be tempted to re-closet the clutter once again. Be productive and put your game face on, eliminating all excess accessories.

For those color critics, Pantone has officially announced the beautiful turquoise to be the official 2010 color of the year. “Believed to be a protector of deep compassion and healing, the color is also a sign of faith, water and sky.” Turquoise is a feel good color, sure to enrich your spirits and perk up your mood. An inviting, luminous hue, the color of the year is unique and universally flattering. So, next time you’re up for a shopping spree, take note to this tempting turquoise revelation. Speaking of turquoise, I had the recent privilege of setting sail on the shimmery, turquoise waters on a Holland American Cruise this past month. The scenery and magnificent service I highly recommend for anyone in search of a fantastic family friendly cruise!

With Love in February,
Pamela